The first date for Ukrainian women – an important part of any relationship. And further communication with a man depends on it. A date is a meeting in real life after acquaintance on the internet, by telephone, through correspondence, or on Skype. Nowadays, online dating sites are very popular. And the transition from virtual communication to a real meeting could take two or three weeks. Very often the partners have high expectations for the first date with someone really interesting. But not always can they achieve their goals.
People should follow the rules of a first date in order to make it pleasant and easy. Let's start from the most important thing.
First minutes
The first ten minutes of a date are the most important. It only takes ten minutes to decide if you are interested in the other person and to determine whether a second date is ever going to happen. According to the statistics of Ukraine, the first dates become the last ones in more than half of the cases. And the reason for this are the high expectations of women and men. That is why both partners should initially determine the character of the date.
A first date should be handled as a pleasant walk around the city, a cinema outing, going to a cafe and nothing more. It is no-obligation communication.
Clothing
On a first date, it is better to give preference to classic clothes. It concerns both women and men. And the next time you meet you will know the partner's preferences and will choose clothes comfortable for you. And, of course, it should be appropriate for the meeting place, so you don't look ridiculous. For women, makeup and perfumes also play a very important role. You can use it to achieve the perfect look. But do it moderately and without fanaticism.
Body language
It is hard to understand how the other person feels at a meeting. That is why, on the first date, it is desirable to pay attention to body language – posture, facial expressions, and gestures. This determines how society views the person. Diffidence and arrogance in communication are the excesses that should be avoided. That is because only confident people can be attractive and successful.
Compliments
Start the conversation on a positive note, tell your partner something pleasant. It might be an unobtrusive compliment about clothes or hairstyle. This will help your partner to relax and take a liking to you. Try to call your partner by his name as often as possible. Because a name is the sweetest sound from childhood. It is very pleasurable and calming.
Modesty and naturalness
Modesty has always been and always will be a form of good manners. This is relevant for both men and women. It is important to remember, for men - don't be greedy if you don't want the first date to become the last. And for women – order meals you are able to pay yourself. It is also important to be real and act natural. And you should not care what other people think about you. The most attractive things are inner beauty and simplicity in communication.
Don't be afraid to ask
On the date ask your partner about his childhood, interests, and hobbies. It is important to ask some questions to get to know the person better. But if your date seems uncomfortable talking about something, no need to press the topic. Don't talk about yourself the entire time and, especially, about your ex-partners, because you may scare off the partner. Concentrate on the person who is close to you.
Don't dwell on the problems
On the first date, you don't need to tell about your problems and adversities. Don't complain about all things that are wrong in your life. Of course, this will take time, but it could be done step by step.
If a woman has a child it is not necessary to speak about him all the time. Men don't like nervous single moms who cannot leave their children alone for just a few minutes. But the same is true about the love of animals. A lot of people cannot stand crazy animal lovers. Because the love of animals is based on individual choice.
Atmosphere of trust and comfort
You just have to remember that your partner also feels worried and insecure. Tell him something interesting and fascinating about yourself. But try to avoid speaking about negative things and, especially, praising yourself.
Keep it simple and don't try to show only your strengths. It will allow you to see the different reactions of your partner and to understand whether he will tolerate your flaws or not. Be open and real. Each of us has something that we want to keep hidden. It is just a fear to spoil the first impression. If you let yourself be imperfect your partner will relax and open up to you. The most important thing is to create an environment of trust and comfort.
Creativity
Try to be an extraordinary person, and think about where you can spend this day cheerfully. You can go to the theatre if you both like this, or you can visit the exhibition. But, in this case, you need to know your partner's preferences. You are allowed to invite your partner for a cup of coffee, to watch a new movie, or just for a walk around the city. Don't invite the partner to your home. A first date needs to be on neutral ground.
Sense of humor and tone of voice
Sense of humor is an essential element on a date. And, the more the better. You may fill a pause by telling a joke or a funny story in order not to feel uncomfortable. A bright smile on your face and a good sense of humor allows you to make a good first impression. Also, humoristic communication boosts the emotional connection that will bring people closer together. And, of course, it will increase the chances of a second date. You should always remember to keep your smile. A smile creates an environment of trust and it makes people more attractive. Don't forget about the tone of voice which is very important for making a great first impression. Try to speak in a calm and gentle voice.
Believe in yourself
Think about your impression of the first date. Did you enjoy it? Do you want to go on a second date? Don't rush into an intimate relationship. You have to spend time with someone to truly know how you feel and to see how comfortable you are in each other's company.
And in conclusion, listen to your heart! Your intuition and heart will never fail you. Be kind, real, and sincere! Keep smiling and always believe in yourself!
Juliya
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